Divorce rates are dominant, but is there hope for a happily ever after? James Sexton is America's top divorce lawyer, and bestselling author of romantic advice books 'How to Stay in Love' and 'If You're in My Office, It's Already Too Late'. In this conversation, James and Steven discuss the number one reason for 99% of divorces, the link between sex and divorce, the glue that holds marriages together, and a ‘note hack’ that could save relationships.  00:00 Intro 01:01 I Am A Divorce Lawyer 01:37 How Many People Divorce 07:51 The Dynamics Between Gold Diggers And Millionaires 11:33 What's Prenups? And The Legalities Behind Marriage! 16:14 The Perfect Prenup 17:56 Disagreements Over Prenups 25:48 Are Prenups Legal? 27:34 The Most Shocking Prenup (Don't Get Fat) 28:59 Appearance As A Measure Of Love In A Relationship 31:33 Prenups With Fidelity & Cheating Clauses 36:30 Are Prenups On The Rise? 38:39 Are People Fake Happy? 43:18 Stop Comparing Your Relationships To Others 49:44 How To Prevent Divorce 54:25 "Happy Wife, Happy Life" 01:01:59 Is Sex The Biggest Cause Of Divorce? 01:06:53 Fixing The Marriage 01:08:36 Who Cheats More? 01:09:02 Who Wants More Sex? 01:12:05 Most Shocking Deceit 01:13:18 Why Husbands Like To Sleep With The Nannies 01:15:36 Killing To Get Out Of A Relationship 01:21:17 Have You Ever Cried? 01:23:29 Love And Loss 01:36:01 Seeing Relationships As Chapters 01:39:55 Have We Been Sold An Idyllic Lie? 01:43:34 Is Money The Biggest Cause Of Divorce? 01:47:59 Can You Hide Money? 01:49:16 You Are Liable For Debts 01:50:49 Winning The Lottery And Keeping Quiet 01:52:20 LGBT Rights & Divorces 01:58:19 Are Open Relationships The Answer? 02:01:00 Is Cheating Okay? 02:04:44 Should We Get Married? 02:12:14 Last Guest Question You can purchase James’s book, ‘How to Stay in Love’, here: https://amzn.to/4dTzdzI  Follow James: Instagram - https://bit.ly/4dFRX5v  Twitter - https://bit.ly/3wCXFV7  Watch the episodes on Youtube - https://g2ul0.app.link/3kxINCANKsb My new book! 'The 33 Laws Of Business & Life' is out now - https://smarturl.it/DOACbook Follow me: https://beacons.ai/diaryofaceo   Shop the Conversation Cards: https://thediary.com/products/the-cards  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Poison or guilty pleasure, the REAL truth about sugar.  Robert Lustig is a Professor of Paediatric Endocrinology and a public health expert on the impact of sugar on our health. He is the author of bestselling books such as, ‘Fat Chance’, ‘Metabolical’, and ‘The Hacking of the American Mind’.  In this conversation, Robert and Steven discuss topics such as, how nearly 75% of grocery items have added sugar, that obesity rates have doubled, the health impacts of childhood obesity and how calorie counting doesn’t help you to lose weight.  00:00 Intro 00:58 Our Minds Have Been Hacked! 04:03 What Dopamine Does to Your Brain 06:53 Sugar Is A Big Problem In Today’s Society 09:28 Why Sugar Is Poison To Our Bodies 10:08 The Difference Between Sugar and Fructose 13:53 This Is How Sugar Is Damaging Your Body 17:29 Damaging Effects on the Brain from Sugar Consumption 21:20 How the Food Industry Is Making You Eat Crazy Amounts of Sugar 24:05 Health Side Effects 26:12 Diet Coke, Saviour or Villain? 34:17 Sugar and the Impact on Our Organs 39:08 How Important Are Calories as a Way to Lose Weight? 42:47 Sugar Addiction, Stress, and Other Triggers 45:03 The Only Foods That Don't Contain Sugar 47:31 Food Labels Are Sending Wrong and Inaccurate Messages 49:16 Babies Are Born Fatter Than Before 50:30 Research on Children's Obesity 53:20 Insulin Resistance 55:00 Can We Reverse Diabetes? 57:34 What Is Leptin & How It’s Involved In Weight Loss 01:01:23 What Are Obesogens & How They Impact Our Health 01:02:31 The 3 Different Types of Fat You Should Be Worried About 01:08:34 Fruit Consumption… Good or Bad? 01:10:45 Environmental Chemicals That Make Us Fat 01:13:16 What Is an Endocrine Disruptor & How Can We Deal with Them? 01:16:11 How To Identify Real Food 01:21:20 The Importance of Fibre in Food 01:26:02 Personal Responsibility 01:33:50 Should the Government Get Involved? 01:38:40 Are We Being Lied To? 01:41:09 The Four C's for Contentment 01:46:19 What Is the Cause of All Our Health Problems? 01:48:46 Last Question   You can purchase Robert’s book, ‘Metabolical’ here: https://amzn.to/4acaseZ  Follow Robert: Twitter - https://bit.ly/4brlsG9  Watch the episodes on Youtube - https://g2ul0.app.link/3kxINCANKsb  My new book! 'The 33 Laws Of Business & Life' is out now - https://smarturl.it/DOACbook Follow me: https://beacons.ai/diaryofaceo  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices